Men oftentimes would leave ladies that love them genuinely and chase after those that don’t love them. A girl that doesn’t love you can be very frustrating, as most would accommodate you only to start taking advantage of you as time goes on. So for those guys who are very slow in noticing girls that don’t like them, this article would be expedient. When you get to see these flags in your relationship then you can know if she loves you or not.
1. Commitment:
If a girl loves you, one of the first things you’ll notice would be commitment. Ladies easily commit when they’re in love as they like receiving love from only one source because it spells security. when a lady is in love and satisfied she gives in her 100% and logs out other guys trying to get her attention. One of the frustrating things to do that would amount to a waste of time, is talking to a lady who is in love. Every word you utter would be met with “I have a boyfriend “. However, when a lady seems to be dating and doesn’t feel loved or her need for love is not satisfied she becomes open to other guys and even entertains their conversations.
2. She helps you save:
There is a popular opinion that says a lady doesn’t help you lavish your money but she helps you save it if she loves you. Guys Listen! If you have an alleged girlfriend who is always about spending and lavishing your money, she doesn’t love you. Girls, who don’t love guys, see them as financial cows with breasts that they can keep milking. If she does love you, she would show you empathy and always have you in consideration at all times If a lady is not thinking this wise, she doesn’t love you.
3. Constant communication:
When a lady loves you she would want to talk to you regularly; not because there’s anything important to say all the time but because she just wants to hear your voice. She would converse with you and go into details about herself, and her activities for the day even when you didn’t ask her to. On the other hand, when her conversations with you tend to be in summary with responses like kk, Yea, and lol” as with chatting on social media platforms, then it’s a red flag that shows that she isn’t interested and doesn’t love you. She might claim that she doesn’t like chatting when you ask the reason for the boring chats, but a lady who doesn’t like typing would send you voice notes.
4. She always forgives:
If she loves you, she would easily forgive you. Though a guy might misbehave and act erratic, when a lady loves you, she would always forgive you. Contrarily, the fact that most guys know this has not made them more sensitive to the love needs of ladies but they constantly take it for granted till the lady becomes bitter to the extent of detesting men.
5. Denial:
Although this is a negative quality, we do see it as an offshoot of love from most ladies. I mean, a lady can catch his guy in bed redhanded making out with another lady and yet deny the act later or even try to water it down after heeding the plea from his man. Everyone might be saying that the guy doesn’t love her yet she can’t seem to see it and even come up with excuses to justify the reason the guy cheated or abused her emotionally and physically. I have heard these oftentimes from ladies who are madly in love “He didn’t mean to cheat, it wasn’t his fault, the girl was throwing himself at him, he doesn’t love her, it’s me he loves “or on physical abuse ” it wasn’t intentional, he didn’t mean to slap or beat me, I provoked him, he has apologized “. All these show denials and most ladies do it when they’re in love.
6. Selfless sacrifice:
Sacrifice of course is a true sign of love for both men and women. If she loves you, she would make sacrifices for you. She would sacrifice her time, energy, and dreams to see that you become what you want to be in life. Women are born nurturers and very great at sacrificing; she would gladly abandon her dreams and place your dreams before hers making all efforts to see that you achieve yours by all means. This is what makes women forgo everything else to stay at home tending to a man’s kids and his home while the man works and has all the fun out there. She would make these sacrifices for you naturally, to show that she loves you.
